me and my fiance have been together for 3 years now and over the past year ive developed this fantasy that ive never had before, now please dont go calling me sick and nasty because its not by choice… is it a persons choice if hes bound to a wheelchair, well i cant get rid of this fantasy any better than they can walk….. ive always wanted to see her with another guy, nothing emoptional…. just sex… no kissing or anything… just straight meaningless sex…. well i knew this would never fly right…. so i was joking around one day and sais we should have a threesome, she joked and said which girl ya want… and i said no another guy… and now she thinks im gay, when im not gay, im not bi, i would want nothing to do with the other guy….. its just this fantasy is kinda like porn but with feelings and a lil bit of reality….. lot of people talk shit to me and say well what if she got pregnant, when she cant, her tubes are tied… what would be a better approach