My gal and I broke up over a month ago. Since I moved back home, she’s called me several times to talk – about school, our families, etc. At first I was having a hard time with the breakup, but realized we ended it for a reason and accepted the fact that, if I wanted her in my life, it would have to be as friends. A few days ago, she calls me to tell me she’s at the E.R. (she’s had some health issues) – I went into my sympathy mode and told her if she needs anything let me know – I said i’d even fly out there. She said she’d call me back later that day to let me know how she was, but didn’t call until two days later to tell me she was admitted and now may need surgery. Again, I told her i’d fly out there – first she said if it makes me feel better then flyout, but later changed her mind and said not to flyout to see her – she said it’d be uncomforatble. I’m confused, our relationship obviously didn’t work, now she’s rejecting my friendship. I think I’ve had it -what should i do?
