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I’m a single mom I work I go to school so I think I’m a very hard working person but for the past couple of years I haven’t had any luck with guys. Lately its my self-esteem level hit a big time low. My family moved to a new town about two years ago and being a single mom I haven’t had much of a chance to make new friends! About two years ago right before I moved one of my friend’s took me over to one of her guy friend’s houses and him and I hit it off really well. We started talking and it was great. Then I remembered that I was moving soon and I couldn’t do a long distance relationship plus I was really scared it was my first time being in a kind of relationship since I had my little girl so I kind of scared him off by pushing my daughter on him to fast. So he stopped calling and we never saw each other again. Then about 3 weeks ago he calls up my friend and ask for my number just out of the blue and he starts calling me again. I’ve talked to him a few times its really boosting my self-esteem. I know that the two of us have grown up a lot but I’m still kind of scared. I just don’t know why this guy I only met once 2 yrs ago wants anything to do with me now. I didn’t even think he ever thought of me again after it ended. I want to ask him that but I’m scared to. I have my own confessions to make like how I kind of knew what I was doing when I scared him off but I’m afraid if I tell him that I kinda meant to do it he might get scared again. I don’t know why but I’m happy to just be able to talk to him when he calls me its like the 2 yrs never happened. And my friend she just keeps saying I knew there was something there. He said that he hasn’t had a real girl friend in 3 yrs and its kinda the same with me could it be that we are both just lonely. ( he’s a cute guy and very nice I know he wouldn’t have trouble finding a girl but he works a lot.) I just don’t know what to do or what to think why after 2 yrs? Him and I talked about what happened 2 yrs ago and we apologized for it. Things after that went well. I’m going back to my home town soon and I asked him if I came into town if he would like to go out and do something (this was when the chances of me coming were a maybe) he said he would love to. So I texted him about a week ago and told him that I am coming into town and he didn’t say much about it. I told him all of the plans that I had set so far. He didn’t say much but started talking about this float trip that he wanted to go on but couldn’t cuz he didn’t have a date. He never said anything about me coming into town and seeing him when I do. We got off of the phone and I thought well maybe he’s lost interest in me. So I told the mutual friend and another girl they both said he’s being shy and I should just ask him. After I got off the phone with them He called me which I though was really strange. He said that he was fishing and was thinking of me and wanted to see how I’m doing so I said great and he said that’s good and we talked for a little bit longer. Then after about 5 mins he said ok well I have to go so I just wanted to see how you were doing and I will talk to you later. It was strange. My friends say that proves he’s shy and nerves. I am in a debate on if I should ask him out or not. I’m still a little scared. I don’t normally ask guys out. So what do you all think I should do?