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I want my tubes tied and Im 22 years old.?

I will almost be 23 when the procedure is to be done. I have a daughter right now she is a year old and was born with clubfeet. It has been really hard for my husband and I going through all this over the past year. She will be in special shoes till she is three and has to fly to south carolina for a visit twice a year. Plus I am pregnant right now and am due in May. I asked my doctor if she would consider tieing my tubes and she didnt say no but was against it. How do i convice her that this is my last child and I want her to tie them for me. I know my daughter wont need help but for so long but we cant afford to have anymore after two. I already know I want them tied but what should I say to her to help her understand???
I know about the IUD and am willing to have it put in but what is the point… put it in and just wait 5 years b/c they want me to then have it taken out and get them tied anyways? ok sounds like a waist of a IUD that someone else could use.

10/10/10 ? What are your thoughts?

I eloped with my husband Nov 2006 but I really want a wedding our families can come to and watch us tie the knot. (again)
Im trying to pick a memorable date. I’d really like Oct 10,2010 but it falls on a Sunday. His family is from Florida, mine is from Hawaii, both would have to fly here to San Diego to see us get married. Are Sunday weddings… okay?
Thanks for correcting me LB, I meant…renewal of vows. =)

Is fly fishing very difficult to learn?

My husband and I would like to try it next time we go to the Smoky Mountains. We’d get an experienced guide, of course, but, would we spend the entire day learning as opposed to catching fish? Are the fundamentals easy to learn?

My ex husband’s house is disgustingly filthy… How can I protect my children when they are with him?

I mean, he has fruit flies and roaches in the bathroom, food in his fridge from before I divorced him in March, there is a bra on my 8 year old floor and no females live there, my 8 year old has a broken window, no sheets on his bed, his mattress is askew, and there is a hole in his ceiling. My 11 year old has cat litter all over his floor. (they dont own a cat.) there is rotton food under their computer desk where their pomeranian lives on a rope tied to the desk. There is mold growing in their food cabinet. I called CPS once, and they had their church come in and clean their house spotless. They let it get messy again. When I called CPS again they thought I was just a bitter ex wife. Any ideas??

Need some answers preferably from people who are familiar with laws concerning animals?

Our neighbor has 3 dogs that they never let inside. 2 Chiuahua’s and an 8 motnh old Mastiff. Every time my husband and I are out in our backyard, the mastiff jumps on the fence violently and attacks it. She is damaging the fence because I see wood chips fly through the cracks. We can’t see any damage on our side YET. She did pop out one of the fence posts the other day but we just nailed it back in. We have asked our neighbor to tie her up HUNDREDS of times. They do for a day then stop. Not only is it extremely frustrating to have to deal with this when we are outside, but I have 3 dogs myself that I worry about if that dog busts through, and we have a baby on the way! We don’t keep our dogs outside but we do let them out to just run around for an hour or so at a time. My question is what can I do? The dog is still confined to their property so it is not a leash law problem. I fear for my baby and my dogs.
I have called both the police and Animal Control and they told me that because the animal is technically still on their property for now there is nothing they can do.
kk- I am not afraid of any dog or breed. When a dog violently attacks a fence to break through it is not a good dog. I am sorry if you have been at the recieving end of this. maybe you need to train your dogs better. There is a thing called common courtesy. I have 3 dogs myself that we have trained not to bark all day and attack fences one of them being a pit bull. So NO I am not afraid of mastiffs, I am afraid of some idiot irresponsible owner (like your self it sounds) letting their dog break through the fence and attack my dogs or BABY!