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I don’t know how to react to this kiss..?

I’m going to start out by saying, I’ve shared many kisses with many different people, so I’m not like asking- “OMG, this kiss was like all others! fkdsjfsdj” and freak out about it. I’m going to call this boy “Joe”. Joe fell inlove with my last June. I had a boyfriend. I two-timed my boyfriend with Joe. Joe didn’t know, nor did my boyfriend. It has been kept that way. We shared one kiss, which was one I truthfully didn’t want to share. It didn’t feel like any sparks were flying. Me and Joe became ill-fully close, then when I broke up with him because I couldn’t take the cheating, he broke all ties with me. I was perfectly okay with that. This past month (August), he texted me. We became close, again. But we never got to see each other. He told me every night how much he loved me, and how he couldn’t bare not seeing me anymore, such and such. Then word got out about us, and he cut all ties, again. This time it took a little longer to get over. But I did. Last Monday, he texted me.
He said he was mad that we got into that “fight.” We became close. He said he was still waiting for “our kiss” to come again. And I honestly didn’t want to kiss him, but I hadn’t planned on seeing him anytime soon. Well, this past Wednesday, it happened. I attended a new youth group, and he was there. During the two hours of class, we didn’t speak. But we secretly held hands on and off. Youth group ended and everybody proceeded outside. A couple of minutes passed by and Joe goes, -”(myname) race me around the building!!” And I knew he stop and kiss me. But I went anyways. And when he kissed me, it took my breath away. It was quick/short, but powerful. And we were holding hands, and then we kissed one last time, and ran back out front. I haven’t spoken to him since. I remember Tuesday night he was texting me from his sisters cellphone because he got his phone taken away. But, it’s now Saturday night.
I don’t know how to react. If I should be worried, and if I should.. should it be about how he reacted to the kiss, or how he hasn’t made any contact? And I cannot talk to any of my close friends about it because he’s one grade younger than us, and as a freshman, I get too much crap for dating an 8th grader. But, he failed kindergarten, and is suppossed to be in our grade, so I don’t worry too much. But I’m still fidgety about all of this. Everytime I think about it, my heart feels like it has butterflies.. not my stomach. I’ve never felt this for anybody. I just.. need to get this out. And get somebody else’s opinon about how to take the no contact, and everything else.
He wouldn’t be trying to get back at me? I didn’t leave him cold.. I broke up with him. He’s the one who left me cold. I still wanted to be his friend, not the other way around. AND I said, he doesn’t know I two-timed him.

Fly Fishing-Tarpon. What kind of Retrieve?

I am buying my boyfriend a fly rod and reel for christmas..it is for catching tarpon. I don’t know what type of retrieve to get him..left hand or right hand? He is right handed, but I don’t know how it works with fishing.

Would you fly cross country to see a person?

I’ve been with my boyfriend for four years. But I loved a guy before him, named Jake. I have known him for six years. I think I am marrying my boyfriend soon, so I feel like I need to see Jake before I’m tied down for good. I miss him and feel deep within myself that I need to see him in person just one more time. However, I couldn’t let my boyfriend know. Should I fly to see Jake? We are just friends, at this point, but I will always have a place in my heart for that rat bastard.

Looking for a place in America to get sterilized?

I’m 27 and engaged to a wonderful man who I love. We both have decided not to have children and he is looking for someone to perform a vasectomy. I want to have my tubes-tied or have the Essure implant put in for added protection. I have tried three doctors in my local area and all three have refused to do because we don’t have any children. They want me to wait until I’m 35 and my boyfriend until he is 30, by then what is the point.

We really don’t want children, we both have zero interest in them and like our lives the way it is. This is not a fly on the moment decision, it is something we both have spend a lot of time soul searching over. Plus I have some mental issues, I’m on pills to keep me stable but the only drugs that works for me may cause birth defects. Also my pills screw up traditional birth control methods. I really don’t want to worry about have children, and while I’m am pro-choice, I would like to avoid an abortion. Anyone who has had any luck finding a doctor in the states, preferably in the midwest would be helpful, thanks.
They were public hospitals

what is this movie?

I saw a movie on FX a few months back, and can’t remember the name of it. Can anyone help? I remember a woman in a wheelchair, her boyfriend downstairs across the street robbing a bank with pantyhose on his head, and some man comes in the room with her. She tells him, “My dress comes off easily”, he lays her on the bed, and they start making out. She screams when he goes down on her, the boyfriend comes in, throws the other guy out? Later on in the movie, the boyfriend has the woman in the back of his van, in a pink tutu and Lucky Strike jacket, takes her out, ties her to an airplane he built, and tries to take her flying, but they end up wrecking. Last I remember, they were sitting on a hill talking. Sorry I can’t remember more, but it was HILARIOUS! Thanks for any help.