I’m going to start out by saying, I’ve shared many kisses with many different people, so I’m not like asking- “OMG, this kiss was like all others! fkdsjfsdj” and freak out about it. I’m going to call this boy “Joe”. Joe fell inlove with my last June. I had a boyfriend. I two-timed my boyfriend with Joe. Joe didn’t know, nor did my boyfriend. It has been kept that way. We shared one kiss, which was one I truthfully didn’t want to share. It didn’t feel like any sparks were flying. Me and Joe became ill-fully close, then when I broke up with him because I couldn’t take the cheating, he broke all ties with me. I was perfectly okay with that. This past month (August), he texted me. We became close, again. But we never got to see each other. He told me every night how much he loved me, and how he couldn’t bare not seeing me anymore, such and such. Then word got out about us, and he cut all ties, again. This time it took a little longer to get over. But I did. Last Monday, he texted me.
He said he was mad that we got into that “fight.” We became close. He said he was still waiting for “our kiss” to come again. And I honestly didn’t want to kiss him, but I hadn’t planned on seeing him anytime soon. Well, this past Wednesday, it happened. I attended a new youth group, and he was there. During the two hours of class, we didn’t speak. But we secretly held hands on and off. Youth group ended and everybody proceeded outside. A couple of minutes passed by and Joe goes, -”(myname) race me around the building!!” And I knew he stop and kiss me. But I went anyways. And when he kissed me, it took my breath away. It was quick/short, but powerful. And we were holding hands, and then we kissed one last time, and ran back out front. I haven’t spoken to him since. I remember Tuesday night he was texting me from his sisters cellphone because he got his phone taken away. But, it’s now Saturday night.
I don’t know how to react. If I should be worried, and if I should.. should it be about how he reacted to the kiss, or how he hasn’t made any contact? And I cannot talk to any of my close friends about it because he’s one grade younger than us, and as a freshman, I get too much crap for dating an 8th grader. But, he failed kindergarten, and is suppossed to be in our grade, so I don’t worry too much. But I’m still fidgety about all of this. Everytime I think about it, my heart feels like it has butterflies.. not my stomach. I’ve never felt this for anybody. I just.. need to get this out. And get somebody else’s opinon about how to take the no contact, and everything else.
He wouldn’t be trying to get back at me? I didn’t leave him cold.. I broke up with him. He’s the one who left me cold. I still wanted to be his friend, not the other way around. AND I said, he doesn’t know I two-timed him.
i’ll reply to yours if you reply to mine;).. go to my questionsa nd leave me a little note
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Ok, just call him!
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come on, long information do you think we have time to read all that?
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just deal with it there are more hot guys n this world besides him dont let it get to u he not worth it if u brake up with him wait til he finds out then let him brake up with u !!
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Well that’s one of the kezillion good of life. Be his date and girlfriend and get married. And they live happily ever after. Just be calm and patient but don’t get overreacting all of a sudden.
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It seems he has always been the one to text you first, if this is a kiss you are feeling so strongly about, why don’t you text him? He might not know how you reacted to it after it all happened, and he might be waiting for you to be the one to text him first this time. You should probably talk to your friends about it because the age thing isn’t such a big matter since he is your age anyway. They will know how to help you since they are your friends. You should just text him back and see how he feels, since you guys always seem to come back to eachother, there must be something there. Good luck and I hope you make the right decision
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well you see to him you kinda dogged him. so this could have been his payback, meet up with you, kiss you, leave you on edge and then ignore you.
he could be trying to get you out of his system
realize hes probabaly hurt about how you two-timed so just give him some space
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i know how thta feels, u kiss a guy then dont hear from them for a lil while. maybe he felt it too and doesnt know how to react. and i know how the butterflies in ur heart feel, i get them everytime i see this guy i really like. maybe oyu hsoud cal him & talk to him. its like the more u go through wiht im the more u like him. & thats normal cuz that creats history. so goodluck and call him if u dont hear from him in a few days.
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